Display a message while the table is loading, one created by the table owner. Inspiration: "Take a deep breath." or something like that.
It would be great to tell people who use my table something while it's loading, an inspirational quote perhaps. It would be effective especially for the kind of internet user today that lacks patience, and wants things to work instantly.
this request is not essential at all.
"Take a deep breath." is something I think Skype used to tell me while it loaded.